Month: April 2014


The Progression of Touch

So many people ask me about intimacy and there being an art to touching others. Notice when you're around friends, colleagues or someone you're attracted to. They will all solicit a highly different degree of touches. I've always been very affectionate. With my friends, family and lovers. There is a book called, The 5 Love Languages and one of those…read more
Heart & Spirit

Are Books Dead?

I read this the other day: "You say you will never give up the physical book you hold in your hand and turn the literal pages. I said the same thing about downloading music from iTunes. I wanted my hard copy CD. But I quickly changed my mind when I discovered I could get albums for half the price without…read more
Heart & Spirit, Just for Women

A Girl, A Daisy and Whole Foods

Popping into Whole Foods downtown today, I was shuffling through produce section to pick up my daily dose of greens.  Freshly finished a run, headphones on, ball cap pulled down tight and preoccupied with my own agenda. One can't help but slow down in this particular Whole Foods.  The distractions are everywhere and it's designed to overload your senses with…read more

Accessorized Hugo Boss Suedes

My latest acquisition: a really cool pair of tan Hugo Boss suede wingtips.  Classic style!  They have white soles and wear great with jeans or casual slacks. These were slipped on immediately and worn around an outside La Jolla mall where they were acquired while on a trip with a friend.  They came with a tan/brown pair of laces, very…read more
Just for Women

The Effervescence of Women

The effervescence of women is such a gift from God.   The newness to the world, the connections to their changing bodies, the inherent pressure to figure out who they are and what they want to be, it all creates a lightness in the air like a passing thunderstorm.  I see this present in younger women 18-25 and have also experienced…read more
Heart & Spirit, Just for Women, Personal Development

Be A Builder

Builders inspire the world.  What they do, how they think, their grandiose ideas that are constantly flowing out of their minds.  I've been a builder from birth, constantly dreaming and searching for the creation of greatness.  Admittedly, I've struggled with the implementation and the consistency needed to actually see the creation launch, grow legs and run on its own.  My…read more
Purpose & Passion, Spiritual

Where is The Man?

In literally hundreds of interviews with men and women, I'm astonished at the erosion of the dominant masculine spirit over the years.   Men are under great pressure to form themselves into something of meaning and define who they are.  Society has changed quickly over the last 50 years demanding the man to be more than his programming was equipped…read more