Category: Dating Tips

The 5 Ways to Get a Man to Listen

The car comes to an abrupt halt, and right before jumping out, a paralyzingly surrender comes over my body. It’s been a long day and after a deep exhale to let it go, with window still partially open, I hear this song in the parking lot’s ambient speakers. “The First Cut is the Deepest” by

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13 Things Divorced Men Over 50 Must Do Immediately to Rebuild Themselves (and women too)

Are you divorced over 50, wondering how to be a desirable man again? “Who is going to want a 55 year old man that is divorced?” I’ve actually heard men (and women too) tell me this, already resigned to the idea that they’re undesirable and unwanted. My mind goes to the elderly couple, still canoodling

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The 4 Traits Of My Next Girlfriend That Totally Turn Me On

Yes, I finally made a list for my next girlfriend! The dreaded pro-con list of relationships. Setting the bar and creating boundaries in what you will and won’t accept in a potential partner can be daunting, and, it can also be liberating. I get it! This is my raw and real feelings on setting up

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Dating The Emotionally Unavailable Person

Only after a few short magical weeks together, things were going along great. The rules I’ve read about dating and love faded away as an effortless-ness seemed to comfort us both in what felt like unbelievable intimacy. Walks along the beach, long talks over our shared dreams, hopes and fantasies coupled with a sexual connection

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6 Reasons Dating Sucks! (Do this instead)

Dating has become this ritual of activity, full of varying opinions and discussions on an exchange between two people, all for different reasons and to determine compatibility. But I have to ask, compatibility for what? What if we stopped this ritual and instead began to creatively connect, to evocatively explore and sought for nothing more

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